Rich and I studied the computer screen. My daughter, at the other end of our Skype connection, was carrying her laptop through their new home in Honolulu, giving us a virtual tour. “It looks lovely, Sweetie,” I told her. “We plan to come see you in the early part of 2012.”
“Pearl Harbor–” she began.
“Yup.” I could hear Elaine smiling through the phone. When a sailor is under temporary orders, the navy won’t pay to relocate the family. Permanent orders are a good thing.
“I’d accept that answer,” she said as we tallied our scores.
25 B)’>gave Himself up for her, 26 D)’>cleansed her by the F)’>the word, 27 that He might a]’>in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be I)’>love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; 29 for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 because we are K)’>body. 31 M)’>love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she N)’>respects her husband.
Ephesians 5:25-33 (NASB)
Oh, I know exactly how you feel as my family is now on two coasts! It’s hard, isn’t it! BUT GOD – one of my favorite phrases! BUT GOD gets us through and provides abundantly. And as you wisely point out, what a blessing technology is for all of us dealing with this. 🙂 Have a blessed week
Yes, Kaye, God will carry us through. And the technology helps! Thanks for coming by. Have a great week.
Sheila, your heart is filled with godly, grace-filled wisdom. My own heart lurched through several parts of your post today. I suspect it took you a while to process what God was doing and what He would have you do and say in those situations. You inspire me! Thanks, Friend!
Linda
Aren’t they interesting, these little family ‘inclusios?’ These turnings that bring us back to a square one somewhere in our family pattern? Sigh. Wish it could have been San Diego or another west coast port – but there will be adventures to be had and memories to be made on those pin-dots on the vast Pacific, that’s for sure. I hear your mama’s heart, Sheila. And that Lala heart, too!
That was lovely, Sheila. You are a good Mama.
Those Skype connections help some, at least the visual is there. No real hugs just blowing kisses.
Congratulations that the promotion gave them a better status, even if they will be further away. Our daughter who lived in Alabama for 2 years now lives 4 miiles from us, so time can change. In the mean while keeping each other in your prayers is the touch that binds.
Linda,
Thanks. One of the best things He’s done for me is to help me remember to keep my mouth shut while I’m processing….
Diana,
It is odd, isn’t it? I’m hoping they’ll get a chance to see my dad’s photo album while they’re home for Christmas.
Carolyn,
I’m blessed with a great daughter and son-in-law. That makes it all so much easier!
Hazel,
That visual is worth a whole lot, with growing grandboys over there…
Your post had me thinking about the year when the Swede and I were engaged and living six hours away from one another. Neither of us could afford the time away from work or the money for gas to visit very often. There were no cell phones, Skype, email or Facebook. Daily I checked my mailbox for a handwritten letter. The absence or presence of one made all the difference on any given day. Not much difference between 4,000 and 6,200 or even 600 miles when you can’t reach out and touch your beloved. Sigh. Always something to look forward to, I guess!
True that, Nancy! Although at this stage of our lives, the gas money could fit in to the budget any ole time, while airfare does take some planning.
Lala. I love it.
I’m glad technology makes our world smaller. But it doesn’t make up for the lack of skin-to-skin touch. But I think of what joy it must bring you to have a son-in-law who loves your daughter so well. And her him.
Lala 🙂 My daughter taught Cadence to call me that. It’s right there in the middle of my name: SheiLA LAgrand…you see.
And you are right, Sandy. I do miss those little hands holding mine. But my “bigger” grandkids were here yesterday. So I’m not destitute of grandchildren due to this move.
But they’re not interchangeable, you know?
Sorry for the extra 2,200 miles. Glad for the technology and the love in your daughter’s little and big families…just like you.
You are a good mama indeed. Do you ever stop missing the kids? Probably not. Thanks for blessing your children and setting an example for those of us who still have a full house!
Brandee, Thanks. I too am grateful, for all those things. And for my daughter’s husband and in-laws and their big, big hearts.
Susan,
I’m sure Elaine could provide you with an example or two of times when I was a not-so-great mama…but I do try. Nope, never stop missing them. But I’m learning to enjoy the empty nest.