But that was the only occasion that arose for the two of us to do something “wedding-y.”
But a golf course-themed gift made no sense. On a whim, I sent the Etsy shopkeeper, Ali, a crazy question. It seemed like an impossible request, but the idea of it settled in my heart. I felt inspired. So I asked: could she create an artwork similar to the golf design but without the golf?
16 Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren. 17 Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow.
James 1:16-17 (NASB)
What a gracious one you are…
Lyla, thanks for reading. It's not my grace–it's His. Even in my "best" moments, I'm just a warped reflection of it.
What a delightful "bonus-mom" you are. God radiates through you. So glad they loved the gift. What a fantastic idea.
This post brought tears to my eyes. You are a precious God sent Bonus Mom.
Sweet Sheila, I know for a fact that being a stepmother is hard. Coming into the picture when the kids are grown gives it an added weirdness at times. I completely understand what you were going through. So glad that God blessed the effort the way He did!
Jennifer,
Thank you. The artist who made it does amazing stuff and loves to customize–I'd order from her again in a heartbeat.
Hazel,
Thank you. As someone who always wanted a big family, but only gave birth to one (though she's an amazing one), I feel like my bonus kids and grandkids are God-sent!
Carolyn,
Thanks. Me too!
I'm glad my daughter's wedding came first. The special things she and I did together while planning her wedding were more precious to me than I could have imagined.
Having that experience helped me to be aware of Rebecca's mom's role and privileges.